Stocking the postpartum freezer and pantry

8.5 years ago, when prepping for my first postpartum (and maternity leave from work)…I had not a clue what life would be like, and I also didn’t feel like many of the mothering resources or moms I knew really got into details after the pregnancy and birth. Except for the idea that you won’t sleep as much, I didn’t have any insight into what recovering from birth would be like. I thought it would be like my best ever 8 week vacation, with a cute babe snuggling in my arms…

I remember distinctly after my first was born, about the blurry 2 week mark, when a dear relative gave me the best gift a postpartum mom might ask for…she brought a huge basket of food (already prepared snacks/etc), and held my fussy baby, while sending me down the street (we lived in Brooklyn) to a deep tissue massage. With everything physically and mentally feeling upside down, even just stepping out into the September air, by myself, and having that healing treatment before rushing home to my babe, was such a gift.

And, being a go-getter and priding myself on bouncing back fast (and having relatively easy recoveries, in my 20’s as I like to say;)—I went back to work after my two girls (part-time) at 8 weeks (and 7 weeks), took a several week road trip when Corinne was 3 weeks old (ok, it was to my moms and MIL, and then a work conf). No regrets, just not the smartest for my overall well being;) And with Ambrose, even though I needed to give myself more recovery time after an intense labor, I was running around town as if life was normal after 5 days…but really, it wasn’t, and I realized the hard way, just how much rest and true recovery time is needed after baby. It’s not selfish, lazy, or anything other than wise to rest for 2 full weeks postpartum (doing very little) or more, depending on the kind of birth you had, and there’s something especially important about the first 40 days, or the 6 week mark, that needs to be honored and given to moms and babies. I read this book: The First 40 days: the Essential Art of Nourishing the New Mother

while postpartum with Ambrose, and it changed my perspective on postpartum entirely. Obviously, nerding out on the incredible nutrition and recipes related to just what the mother’s body needs to heal, but also how, culturally, we’ve lost a sense of what a sacred and important time this really is for a mother. So….I’m aiming to do things quite differently this time, and while I won’t drop offline or do absolutely nothing for 40 days, I will be treasuring the ability to create a cocoon of care, quiet, warmth, nourishment, and support during those weeks, which conveniently coincide with a cold CT winter…hibernation and babies just might be the thing that works for someone like me (my first 2 were summer girlies, and I struggled to stay home and quiet during that amazing season!).

There’s a lot at stake here for mothers, notably, a large rise in PPD and PPA in recent years, which can be connected to so many things, but especially can be quickly triggered (even with all the hormone and other things that are in flux) by a lack of proper rest, care for mom as well as babe, and giving her permission to get off the fast track life, or for others, perhaps isolation with baby, being alone too much during those first weeks can augment it. It’s a delicate balance of people being able to help, but in the ways that she needs, and not having to play hostess and simply show off the babe in rotation, without thought for her. In any regard, these recipes are focused in on the essential nourishment of mom–body, mind and spirit–and therefore babe…and I enjoyed creating a few of them from my experience/what I already know I usually crave after babies, and a few are straight from the postpartum cookbook, which you’re going to want to get for all the new moms in your life, as a tremendous gift. We’ll take back the culture around a truly restful postpartum experience, and help moms everywhere thrive, with their babies right there with them.

For me, I know I’ll want to keep my head in the game a bit, and that’s the beauty of this work/business that we’ve been able to create…but you’ll see more guest blog posts here, which is super exciting, prepare for some great ones! Postpartum is a terrific moment to just be willing to ask for help, and for some of us, that can be harder than others…but it’s always beautiful to see the response from our community (and create one intentionally, that will support you putting baby and momma needs first).

If you are on maternity leave and feeling that pressure that real life will come rushing at you all too quickly, I get it (been there)—definitely savor these weeks and fight off pressure to do anything except the stuff that matters for yourself and babe.

This book when I discovered it in my postpartum with Ambrose (it had just come out)–spoke directly to my wearied heart—moms in all cultures and times have been given a sacred space and time and had rituals surrounding postpartum rest–often with family members coming and living with them, daily massages with oils, not being allowed to entertain/host “guests” etc…but to simply rest…and this current culture of idolizing the “bounce back”–whatever that means–is perverse and not helpful for women or their babies, from what I’ve seen, especially with working with many women from a health coach perspective in their postpartum stages. Her perspective is unique and valuable, as a high-powered career focused woman in LA who expected popping out babies is just a blip in the radar, who yet as 2nd generation chinese American, had a tie to the past cultural norms and support that we now have no concept of, and it led her to start the company called Motherbees to precisely address this need she perfectly expresses in this book, and which resonates so much with me and those I share it with. 

You will want to grab this (it’s linked above through amazon) to send to any new moms in your life, just about to enter this stage, or even better, grab it and prep some of the meals for the new moms in your life–and bring them over with some of the awareness of what moms need from their “guests” that the book addresses–like the willingness to clean her sink or hold the babe while she naps, while you’re there.

Postpartum bars for energy and hormone balancing

These ingredients were languishing in my pantry so I mixed this up for complete hormone balancing via yummy snacking–if you’ve never heard of seed cycling, it’s a fascinating and natural approach to balancing hormones and cycles with various types of seeds, and this recipes uses all of those super-seeds.

Ingredients:

1/2 cup coconut oil

2/3 cup almond or peanut butter

1/2 c maple syrup

1 tsp vanilla

1 cup sunflower seeds

1 cup flax seeds

1 cup pepitas

1/2 cup sesame seeds

1 1/2 cup organic coconut flakes (unsweetened)

1/4 cup organic chia seeds

1/4 cup organic maca powder

Directions:

Melt coconut oil, almond butter, maple syrup, and vanilla together in a medium saucepan on med-low heat, until fully combined.

Mix dry ingredients together in a large bowl, then pour in and mix in the saucepan ingredients in slowly, stirring well to fully combine, using a spatula, scoop it into a 9×13 pan with freezer paper or parchment paper lining it, and then pop it into the freezer for min of an hour. I love how they taste cold and right out of the freezer, so you can store them there for a month. Or you can also keep at room temp. They are super tasting and pack an amazing hormone balancing and energizing (maca powder) punch.

My goto for preventing PPD (along the topic of hormone balancing) is this fantastic GLA complex that I start taking in 3rd trimester daily, and it really seems to do o the trick for warding off PPD tendencies  in the first weeks following birth. There’s now so much more research and focus being put into natural methods that can help moms–this article shares some encouraging ideas, and I hope that these ideas of prepping and eating well, as well as all the holistic care for postpartum focused on of the art of nourishing in the new mother in the book mentioned above will give support to anyone who’s looking to navigate that season with support and good resources.

Last week I got busy making some soups that I knew I’d want to have at the ready when baby is here. In the First Forty days book, she goes into detail on why it’s important to start with soups for momma, no matter what the season—slowed digestion after birth, and needing to replenish vital nutrients quickly and easily are some of the main reasons. I’m a soup fanatic anyway, and this winter baby/hibernation agrees with what I’m naturally craving, so it works out. I did 2 bone broth based soups, and 2 vegetarian ones. There’s a good reason why it’s great to focus on bone broth for replacing essential amino acids and healing/supporting the mother’s gut while nourishing her back to strength…a classic healing tool, but it will be best combined with other warming spices that increase her circulation, and vitality, even as she continues to release blood after birth. I didn’t include this Weston Price recipe for a postpartum soup in my freezer, but if you can stomach pigs feet, it’s a good concept 😉

Soups

*Split Pea Soup (made in my crock-pot from my new year’s ham bone, and a whole foods split pea soup mix–super easy, and I added onion and garlic)

*Chicken, Red dates and ginger soup (from the first 40 days cookbook)

*Curried chickpea and lentil daal (vegan)

*Celery/veggie stock vegetarian puree (recipe below)

*Stock some containers of homemade bone broth as well–I use organic rotisserie chickens, as this saves me a step. You can drink this straight, or have your support folks whip up easy soups for you.

Other Freezer foods

Chicken pot pie—this is a cross-over of something I know I’ll crave in postpartum (I loved it after Emma), but will also feed the family in a pinch. Use any recipe (I don’t even follow one exactly at this point, it’s so 2nd nature to me–sorry!), I just recommend making your own broth, as that’s the key nourishing element, along with the veggies and chicken.

Quiche–with ham and brussel sprouts. Another super easy-to-freeze meal that’s hearty, will check off many of the boxes of what moms need postpartum (protein! veggies!) but also will satisfy other tastes in the house. Yum! Again, make whatever your go-to quiche recipe is, and be picky about the crust–either make your own or get an organic/whole wheat one if that matters to you.

The postpartum pantry

Yes, it’s true, the combination of new years energy/focus, plus nesting, and my love of #konmari after living a #sparkjoy lifestyle for 3 years, means every space in my house is absolutely de-cluttered and sparking joy–much to my husband’s teasing–though secretly he’s the same way and loves it (And I’ll have to be ok if that slips a bit in the months following babe, because the simplified life still serves us)

Not too much to say here about my pantry staples, except, if you ask any new mom, the effort involved in cooking a simple meal can feel insurmountable at times…so having things prepared but also easy to reach for (rather than calling take-out, though that’s a great option occasionally too;))…will help not only me, but also my support team, to be able to easily whip things up.

Some of my favorite postpartum snacks etc that I’ll make with these ingredients are below, and the First Forty days cookbook has a killer ginger fried rice recipe (eggs, scallions, bacon, broth based) that I’m already dying for someone to make for me. You want to avoid going crazy with grains in the first few weeks (or if you’re grain free or GF like me), plan for alternatives while your digestion kicks back into gear…though never underestimate a nice beer for lactation needs, and alot of my recipes do include oats, which is a nice compromise for me. Nutritional yeast is awesome to have on hand to add to things (b vitamins!), as are the chia seeds (fiber and protein packed super seeds), and I make my favorite postpartum natural energy drink with them (energy tea, hydrate and chia seeds, so good!).

Postpartum healthy snacking

All these can be made ahead and stored in freezer for up to a month, or in your fridge for a week. So delicious and check off all the boxes of what your body needs in these early days, especially when establishing BF-ing habits, the oats and protein and healthy fats are key.

*Hormone balancing snack bars (recipe above)

*Energizing protein bites–pictured above–I ALWAYS have these stocked for myself, and my kids. Clean, delicious snacking #FTW.

*Date/oat/maca energy bars

*Banana/oat/choc/coconut cookies

Postpartum Nutritional tools—key to recovery, energy, rest and balancing hormones.

I couldn’t omit these from this post–the game-changing nutritional tools that I didn’t have after my first birth and postpartum experience. I felt SO depleted and low energy and not myself–for over a year. With these tools that I’ve used in the past 2 postpartums, I am always amazed and grateful at how much energy I have, how “easy” some of the recovery aspects are—in terms of muscle soreness, establishing rest, handling post-birth constipation/digestion issues, and reducing inflammation, setting up well for a great milk-supply and breastfeeding experience (the alfalfa is everything), and then, with the life shake, easily and gently losing the baby weight and feeling great. Of course, it’s the rest of life and the transitions that’s the challenging part, but for momma to feel her best is KEY, especially as baby’s thriving is so tied up with that in the first weeks and months.

So, here ya go.

Alfalfa: Not only does this prevent water retention/bloating for me in the 3rd trimester (say what!?) it also helps a ton with post-birth relief and reducing water retention in the early days following birth, when your body naturally begins to release it. ALSO, game changer for consistent, great milk supply. Without it, I always cycled between over supply and under-supply, and this seems to balance mine out wonderfully. If clogged ducts or any issues in that realm appear, lecithin helps miraculously.

Herblax: a gentle, very effective herbal laxative, so helpful for so many moms I know–hemorroids are common after birth and some of my friends say their’s were more painful than birth itself! Thanks to this, you can avoid all of that (and check out reflexology and pelvic postpartum care to further handle any issues in that area)

Vitalizer: the worlds best pre and post-natal supplement. Helps tremendously with replenishing iron stores post birth, probiotic is key for digestion, and the many Bs are super key for mommas who need their balanced energy with less sleep on the agenda. Also has iodine for thyroid support, and a weak/sluggish thyroid is typical for postpartum so it needs all the support we can give it.

Recover PM. So this is a tart cherry supplement used by athletes, and if birth isn’t an athletic event, I don’t know what it is. I LOVE this for my post-long run muscle recoveries, and as a natural form of melatonin, it helps with deeper sleeper cycles, so yes, a key one to have around.

GLA. This is the stuff I swear by for mood balancing and bringing the hormones back into balance. Start taking it a few per day in 3rd trimester, and you’ll notice a world of difference. I had one postpartum without it (my first) and while I didn’t have a strong case of PPD, just felt so much more moody, and with this my most recent postpartums have been a breeze in that regard. So grateful.

Cal-Mag is key for restful nights sleep and reducing feelings of anxiety/anxiousness. I’ll do epsom salt baths regularly in postpartum too, but supplementing with magnesium in the evenings (and needing calcium since I don’t do dairy) helps me get a great night sleep–and hopefully babe too:)

Pomegranate Energizing tea. If you can only get one of these amazing tools, this would be my suggestion–such a wonderful natural pick-me-up (without caffeine, just B vits and amino acids)–so many moms I’ve shared it with just swear by it for afternoon energy and a non-jittery option. Tastes amazing, pomegranate flav—with seltzer, or my fav combo, with chia seeds and the hydrate drink for a powerful nutrient punch.

Finally, Vivix. LOVE this stuff for postpartum–it’s reduces inflammation and helps with overall healing in all parts of the post-partum body–contains the anti-inflammatory benefits of a special type of grape that makes 1 serving more potent (anti-oxidant wise) than 50 glasses of red wine!! (Though you can enjoy a few of those too;))

Since I had hoped to have this freezer and pantry stocked before babe, and sharing this post is the icing on the cake, now I just can’t wait to make use of all these things to help the first few weeks flow smoothly. I hope this supports all the mommas out there–if you know someone who’s prepping for birth and would enjoy seeing these ideas, share away.

If you have recipes you swear by for post-partum, I’d love it if you could share links below in comments or email me!

xx

maddy